tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3827507184708653105.post44931483901415632..comments2023-06-13T08:15:07.636-07:00Comments on Burning Cocoons: AnathemaSarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03165448435481764718noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3827507184708653105.post-45226258558111951932009-02-26T09:17:00.000-08:002009-02-26T09:17:00.000-08:00Hi Sara. I was going to comment on "A Victory and...Hi Sara. I was going to comment on "A Victory and a Defeat," with apologies for being so slow, but now I can't see it. It seems not to have been deleted, but the text is gone. That's a bit confusing! Hope you are OK.Véro Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02895169022031921712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3827507184708653105.post-89055564865870769242009-01-29T11:31:00.000-08:002009-01-29T11:31:00.000-08:00Sorry for taking a few days to respond. I read th...Sorry for taking a few days to respond. I read this entry right away, but I wasn't sure of what to say. I'm still not sure.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry about the ongoing situation with you mom. My situation has similarities, except that I'm a lot older and have no dependence on my mom. It's still hard when your mom doesn't even try to get it.<BR/><BR/>I'm hoping you can somehow defuse the situation with your roommate. It's not good to be a doormat, but somehow it seems you might want to try to bridge the gap. You're there and I'm not, so I can't really say.<BR/><BR/>I'm afraid I don't have time to go back to earlier entries. Are you no longer in school because of lack of tuition money? I know that school isn't cheap. But didn't you once mention looking for a job? No question that it's a bad time for that, but it seems to me that some kind of job, even a crappy one, is better than no job. Again, you know your own situation best.<BR/><BR/>At any rate, you do not deserve these troubles! You deserve to be happy, as Gillian said. One thing to do is to figure out what, if anything, you can do to make that happen. Maybe it's not a lot, but I'd be surprised if it's nothing. I realize that in your situation it's hard for you to take control.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you're still able to see a therapist. That's important.<BR/><BR/>Considering how much I whine in my own blog, when I have things so good, I have no problem with anything you might want to write!Véro Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02895169022031921712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3827507184708653105.post-68973912543640658752009-01-27T02:29:00.000-08:002009-01-27T02:29:00.000-08:00I wish I could magically transport through the int...I wish I could magically transport through the internet and give you a hug. <BR/><BR/>No one deserves to be unhappy. Everyone has the right to whine and cry and be "emo" when the need to.<BR/><BR/>I'm writing this very late at night and my sleep deprived brain wants sleep so big hugs and good night.Gillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07245803743214454518noreply@blogger.com